ALPHA MALE

Recently, I got asked the following question, which has been coming up more and more lately:

"What's all this stuff about being a "cocky/funny" "Alpha" male? Is it true that "busting" on a woman and being "Alpha" is what it really takes to get the kind of hot women most men really want?" Look: there is nothing wrong, per se, with being cocky or commanding or challenging with a woman.  But being cocky and sarcastic, by itself , is not going to get you into a woman's arms or her bed, unless you happen to already be so good looking that she feels her naughty parts tingle just by looking at you . What being cocky and teasing a woman a little can do is get you past her initial, "Is this just another loser guy?" screening tests. It will get her attention, and hold it, for a little while. It will get you past her first set of screens and keep you talking with her, for a little while. But then, what do you do? Then, what do you talk about? Well, as I've taught hundreds of guys just like you over the years, you need to be able to lead the conversation into the topics and themes that are most likely to capture and lead her imagination and emotions. So you had better learn to drop the joking fairly quickly, and introduce those themes within the first 10 minutes of talking, or any woman good looking enough to have the choice will simply move on! Doesn't that just make sense? Leaders: Not Alpha "Boys!" Now, let's clear the next point up: It is not that women (at least the half-way emotionally healthy ones) like "Alpha" men, at least as defined by these "gurus" as men who are loud, pushy, and full of themselves.

The reality is that humans, male and female alike, respond to leadership. And leadership has little or nothing to do with silly, teenage, juvenile posturing

and high school games. So what is real leadership and how can it help you be successful with women?

Leadership is about having a twin set of skills that balance and complement each other.

1- Being able to strongly guide and set a strong direction.

2- Listening to the other person to find out where they are at and what moves them.

This is the ideal combination that, in fact, can make you powerfully attractive to women, and here's why: Nice Guy vs. Jerk — the False Choice Most Guys Wind Up Making! The problem is, we guys are given a false choice between two bad extremes, both of which can screw us up.

1- Be the "nice guy" The problem with nice guys is, they not only listen to a woman to find out where she is at, but they lose themselves in the woman's emotions. So, if she is upset, the nice guy becomes upset too. If she is a little bit anxious about proceeding further, sexually, the nice guy gets anxious himself, mistaking her anxiety for his own! He doesn't just listen; he loses himself in the woman. And of course, romantically, this spells disaster!

2- Be the "jerk" Now, jerks have no problem setting and holding a strong direction. The problem is, they don't care at all about how hard they have to step all over a woman's feelings to do so. So they wind up either attracting very damaged women, or damaging the women they do attract , bringing out the worst sides of even relatively healthy women . To win, the jerk has to make other people lose. And most of us are quite naturally repelled by such a bad choice!

Leadership: The True Skill and Challenge! The true skill set is being able to keep your own desire and intent strong, while at the same time recognizing, listening to, and gathering information about the women you wish to attract. When you can make women feel both listened to and led, both recognized and guided, then you will carry a "vibe" about you that no busting, sarcastic, "Alpha" loudmouth could ever even hope to imitate, much less realize and enjoy. Don't get me wrong. You can and should do all of this with and through a sense of fun and humor. But once the joking stops, the substance has to begin. And that substance is something much different than what these "Alpha" gurus have been telling you. The hidden secret of men who are successful with women.

One More Hidden Secret

Of The True "Alpha" Male! There is one more deeply hidden, seldom realized secret of true leadership that attracts even the hottest women in droves. It's the courage and self-acceptance to step into the world and try on new ways of thinking and acting, without any absolute certainty of success. I want you to think about this. Most people go through life terrified of making mistakes. They want certainty and absolute guarantees of success before they will even take a real step. Even if they are trying something they have never done before, they want to be certain first before they make a move. Doesn't that describe the reality, beneath the surface, of most people we know? So they wind up never being certain and never moving, because no one can know for sure what will happen prior to leaving the starting gate. That is why, when trying new ways of acting with women, it is much better to balance any fear with the simple thought, "Not dangerous, just new and different for me. Not failing, just something new and unfamiliar." Instead of trying to pump yourself up with false certainty (or by putting others down), just balance any fear with a quiet, natural acceptance that recognizes that the new and different always has some element of giving up a little bit of control. Instead of having to win, take on the belief that says, "I will either get what I want, or learn what I need to in order to get what I want or better the next time". This will help you carry a calm, balanced vibe, no matter what new effort with women you decide to take on. And you'll never have to put another person down in order to feel better about yourself. Women will sense that vibe in you and love it!

MIND CONTROLLING

MIND CONTROL I am going to share with you some particularly powerful ways on how to pick up a girl that most guys will never ever find out. The problem with most guys now is they tend to want to over-complicate things when it comes to dating and seducing women will stop bitching that it is important for them to learn about convoluted dating routines or lame tactics in order to be successful with women. They tend to gravitate towards complicated techniques which are not proven to work. What they do not know is that the simplest techniques will work when it comes to making a go fall in love with you quickly and easily. The best thing is that most techniques on seduction that work actually fairly simple to learn and apply in the real world. I urge you to find these techniques, study them, and perhaps most importantly test them when you approach women. In this respect it is important for you to commit to approaching women every single day. Do not make the mistake of learning seduction techniques for the sake of learning. In order to be good at a particular skill, you will need to apply that skill in real life. The same goes for dating and seducing women. It is not sufficient for you to read techniques off a block and hope that when the time comes you will be able to perform. The reality is that without practice you will not be able to improve your love life. Face up to this reality and you will be well on your way to seduction greatness. What I teach my clients are fairly simple. First of all, in order to be attractive you have got to be different from the other guys so that you can win any girl over. Remember that the more popular goal is the more attraction she will get from guys around her. Therefore, in order to be attractive to her, you have got to stand out in her eyes. There is no point being another guy who is going after her without any particularly appealing and different characteristics that will make you stick in the mind. Remember that seduction is war. It is really brutal out there! Realize that competition will be severe, and in order to win, you will need to be different. This is also the way to impress any woman quickly and easily. Remember the Eternal Commandments! Next I’m going to share with you a simple trick on how to make a girl like you quickly. First of all asset to describe to you how the dream guy would get her to describe to you as speedily as possible so that she forms a clear picture in her mind how the ideal boyfriend would be like. If you can use some mild hypnosis and persuasion techniques in order to convince her to participate in these exercise with you. When you have done this already asset to close the eyes, and then use the anchoring techniques which I’m going to show you later in order to make her think that you are the ideal boyfriend she has pictured in her mind. When you do this, you will associate yourself with the positive picture in the mind and make her love you quickly. It is amazingly simple but super powerful. Try it the next time you want to attract a girl and make her fall in love with you

ALPHA MALE

FRACTIONATION TO THE RESCUE

FRACTIONATION

Admit it; all that you want out of life is to find a girl who will love you. Don’t worry. Every guy wants that. It is a part of being human, really. Every guy looks for the perfect girl who will fit into his life plan somehow and whether you want to admit it or not, this is the sole reason why you go out every weekend, hoping to hook up with a girl: to find your perfect match. While a lot of guys really aren’t hard to please in the girl department, the opposite can be said for girls. Because of this, most men end up believing that they simply don’t have what it takes to win over their dream girls. Are you one of the guys who think this way? Well, the good news is that you don’t need to win the lottery or look into plastic surgery to win over the perfect girl for you. All you have to do is keep reading to know the dating fundamentals and you will learn the top secrets that pickup artists use to get girls to like them and actually succeed in that department yourself. Let’s admit it, men and women are not equal . If we are, then we wouldn’t be wasting too much time studying attraction. Fractionation – The Final Seduction Secret

OK, here’s the deal – we’ll cut to the chase right away.  FRACTIONATION is a covert psychology technique which is reputed to make women fall in love rather quickly (in 15 minutes or even less). Derived from the works of preeminent psychologists like Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung, fractionation makes a woman emotionally dependent on a man in two steps:-

1. First, hack into a woman’s mind by

building emotional rapport. And then,

2. “T rigger” off attraction by making her go

through a roller coaster ride of emotions.

You might be aware of how soap operas work – by bringing the audience through emotional roller coasters; they create huge following through addictive storytelling. This is essentially how

Fractionation works. OK, so now you are well equipped with a couple of fractionation-based story lines up your sleeve.

Good. Now let’s get into the field to test out the secret seduction weapon that you have now.

Tip #1: Prepare Yourself. Believe it or not, the right preparations can instantly turn you into a chick magnet. So, before hitting the town and looking for the perfect girl for you, make sure you are wearing trendy clothes, know where the hot spots are in your area and look as good as possible. If you do all of these things, you will automatically eliminate any potential problems from occurring in terms of your looks and ensure that girls won’t get turned off by you because of your appearance. Remember: the only guys who refuse to make the right preparations before painting the town red are the ones who are fools. Don’t be one of them and never assume that you will somehow get lucky one night, even without thinking things through first. And doing your homework on fractionation will put you ahead of 90% of the guys out there already.

 Tip #2: Know The Area. You need to be familiar where the hot spots are in your area before you head out. This would be especially important if you are new to the game. After all, if you are just experimenting on how to pick up girls right now, then the best place to do so would be somewhere nearby. All that this really means is that you have to go to as many local parties and bars as possible. Get to know the girls in your area, as well as the other people around you, so that you can practice your social skills and widen your social circle at the same time. Besides, girls tend to respond much more to guys who are social than to guys who don’t seem to know anybody else in the vicinity.

Tip #3: Show Off Your Value. Once more people get to know you, you can start showing off your value to a girl that you like. Even if you think that a girl is way out of your league, you can win her over. You just need to start by hiding the fact that you find her intimidating to begin with. To do this, turn the tables around and somehow make her feel outmatched. Most of the time, this merely has something to do with your own mindset. If you believe that you are a valuable guy, then she will believe it, too. Also, avoid looking desperate and clingy; this will only turn her off more than anything else.

Tip #4: Bring Your A-Game. Before approaching a girl, it would also be important to be as confident as possible – fake it if needed. Even if you have never spoken to that girl before, just start talking to her with a smile on your face and she will find you friendly and approachable enough to carry on a conversation with. It would help to maintain strong eye contact while you talk to her, too. Also, make sure you ask a lot of questions (or run multiple conversation threads). Girls happen to love talking about themselves… and this is before you pull the fractionation trick, of course. She will then be all over you like white on rice, guaranteed.

Tip #5: Build Up Some Suspense. Another great way to get a girl exactly where you want her is to build up some suspense. Girls love suspense and drama by nature, so you have to offer those things up to them whenever you can. By building up some suspense, you can actually get any girl attracted to you and get her to stay by your side like a bee to honey.

Tip #6: Keep Her Confused. On that note, you should never make a girl feel comfortable and at ease in your presence. Instead, you have to make her work at keeping your attention on her. If you fail to do this, then she will fall into a sea of comfort and familiarity and lose interest in you pretty quickly. Conversely, if you make it hard for a girl to figure out how much you really like her, she will stay interested in you for longer. This is why it would be best to give girls a hard time in understanding you. Once they see right through you and your game, your power over them will be over.

Tip #7: Deliver Multiple Doses of Fractionation. A lot of guys have heard of the art of fractionation yet, but it has been used by great pickup artists to win girls over in less than 20 minutes. Fortunately, you can learn how to use this technique yourself and pick up your own dream girl within that short time frame with ease. Before you learn this technique, though, you should know that fractionation is called a dark art because it uses a form of hypnosis to win girls over. It is actually considered to be quite controversial in some circles, but it is definitely one of the most effective techniques out there to seduce girls with ease. Since this technique isn’t very conventional and since it is still controversial in some circles, you should use it at your own risk, knowing that it can be dangerous in the hands of the wrong man.

HOW TO TAP DEEPLY INTO FEMALE PSYCHE

GIRLS PSYCHOLOGY

Girls’ psychology really isn’t that hard to understand. Unfortunately, a lot of guys do have trouble understanding the dating psychology of girls. So, if you are one of these guys, then you need to learn certain tricks of girl’s psychology as soon as possible to easily decipher a girl’s thoughts and actions at any given time. This is especially important when you are flirting with her. Believe it or not, girls are actually very predictable in the world of dating because they let their feelings govern them instead of their minds. So, once you understand female psychology, in general, you shouldn’t have any trouble making any girl that you want fall for you – believe it. Truth be told: seduction doesn’t have a lot to do with looks or money, like most guys seem to think. In fact, getting a girl to like you has more to do with is how great you can make girls feel whenever they are in your presence. Read on to learn some effective tricks of female psychology that can make girls fall for you in just a few seconds. Top Seven (7) Female Psychology Tricks To Hack Into Her Mind

Trick Number One: Trigger an aura of mystery. When trying to get a girl to fall for you through girls’ psychology, you have to show them that you see something special in them and find them incredibly interesting because of it. The key here would be not to tell them what that something is, though. This will make them think about you 24/7. This trick works because it increases the levels of female curiosity while boosting their attraction towards you at the same time. Just remember to stay mysterious every single time you are around the girl that you like in order to maintain that attraction for as long as possible.

Trick Number Two: Get rid of her ego somehow. Girls are used to getting attention whenever they want, so you have to get rid of a girl’s ego somehow if you want to succeed at attracting her. Basically, you need to focus on doing certain things whenever you are around the girl that you like. Spend more time talking to her friends than to her, for example, or pretend like she doesn’t exist when you are hanging out with a whole group of people. Not only will this make her jealous and make her feel ignored, but she will also try much harder to get your attention on her because of it. Remember: girls love things that are rare and consider those things to be extremely valuable. So, if you make yourself unavailable to her, your value will automatically skyrocket in her eyes and she will want you more than ever. This is just how girls’ psychology works.

Trick Number Three: Use her emotions to your advantage. As mentioned earlier, girls let their hearts rule them instead of   their heads. So, if you can successfully manipulate a girl’s emotions to your advantage, you should have no trouble making her fall for you completely. You may need to go through several trials before actually succeeding at this, but it will definitely be worth it in the end. There are more tips found at online seduction knowledge repositories (such as seductionfaq.com/blog) – go check them out when you have got the time.

Trick Number Four: Use reverse psychology. Why do you think girls go nuts over limited edition designed handbags? It’s simple, really: they are hard to get . So, if you want to appeal to girls, you have to play on that bit of girls’ psychology and become hard to get yourself. To do this easily, just disqualify and reject girls on a regular basis. Basically, you have to make them feel that you are impossible to get and that you aren’t interested in them at all. Instead of just making your value skyrocket this way, girls will start running after you and throwing themselves at you if you do this right.

Trick Number Five: Create some confusion. In a nutshell, all this trick really involves is messing up a girl’s thoughts. This trick is different from the tricks mentioned earlier because you don’t actually have to try and control her mind – just confuse her a little bit. By confusing the girl of your choice, you can actually make her develop a subconscious obsession with you. How can you confuse her by using girls’ psychology to your advantage? Well, one thing you can try is alternate the feelings of being reserved and being attracted to her. Understanding psychology of girls shows that this trick will work because at getting girls to fall for you because it is shrewd and unexpected. Plus, girls love it when guys play them hot and cold. They just won’t admit it.

A good technique on “hacking” into a girl’s mind using the famed female loophole is called fractionation. It involves making a girl experience a proverbial “emotional roller coaster” by using covert psychology and persuasion methods. Some question the need to use these “mind control” techniques on women, but as long as you don’t harbour any ill intentions towards women then why not?... We’ll discuss about “mind control” technique in later chapters.

                                                                                    

Trick Number Six: Practice the art of intense eye contact. Without actually resorting to actual hypnosis, it is possible to attract a girl just by making eye contact. You just have to make sure that you learn how to use eye contact in a way that will make her feel like you are boring into her soul. This may take some time to master, though. A lot of the times, guys end up looking at girls for too long while practicing this in the beginning that girls start thinking they are being rude or creepy. If this happens to you, don’t give up just yet. Once you do get to focus her properly, you will actually be able to gain her overall admiration in the end and even get her obsessed with you. Try it!

Trick Number Seven: Successfully create a lingering presence. Another way to hypnotize a girl without using actual hypnosis would be to make her feel like you are there with her, no matter where she goes. This might sound strange and creepy to you, but it can be a very effective method if done right because it can easily make girls develop an attachment to you. Plus, if you are extremely good at it, you can even make the girl work hard for your attention. Naturally, before using any of the tricks on girls psychology mentioned above, you will have to exercise a bit of caution. After all, these tricks may prove to be dangerous if used too much and could backfire if used inappropriately.